by BlakSyn | Jul 25, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Mental Health
We often make ourselves and others less than the total sum of parts that comprise a human being. In this case, “parts” refers to every ingredient that makes up who we are as a person. This includes thoughts, feelings, emotions, behaviors, ideas, reasoning, mental...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. This is a discussion around the literal definition of trauma as pertains to me. Bear with me. Dominance, for me, is a kind of sincere performance. It isn’t entirely who I am as an existence, nor do I identify as dominant, but my ability to call upon it does...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. Herpes and the stigma associated with it is not one easily circumvented. This stigma, continuously exacerbated by media, ignorance and misinformation, does more harm than good. It’s a stigma teaching the uninitiated that people with herpes are dirty, reckless and...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. Holding the trauma I’ve endured under scrutiny has been integral to personal growth and continuous improvement. Whether in BDSM or real life, the examination of my traumas offers insight that explains why I’m prone to certain behaviors and actions. That is, the...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Mental Health, Risk
My most favorite and cherished aspect of BDSM is the depth to which I was able to dive below its surface. As I’ve ventured forth and deeper, I’ve gained invaluable tools imperative to better understanding BDSM in today’s world. From physical skills like rope to...
