Non-Verbal Communication

Non-Verbal Communication

Dom/mes have a responsibility to develop their abilities ineffective communication and comprehension of verbal speech. They also must possess the foresight to establish a non-verbal protocol with their subs/bottoms/clients. This, of course, goes both ways as...
Non-Verbal Communication

The Color System

Hay.  I’m sure that many if not most of you are familiar with the concept of a “safe word”. For those of you who aren’t, “safe words” are words and phrases traditionally used to immediately stop a scene. There are numerous ways to augment what its use entails. Some...
BDSM and Safety

BDSM and Safety

Safety, of course, is an important part of BDSM. There are no acts within BDSM that are without risk. Although risk is a clear and present aspect of kink itself, we can mitigate it by being present in our consideration of safety. When we think of safety, preventive...
BDSM and Clout

BDSM and Clout

The power someone gains from heightened notoriety as a result of others possessing widespread reverence for them can be described as clout. While clout itself isn’t necessarily a bad thing, our attitudes towards clout can be dangerous. We don’t always hold notable...
Aftercare

Aftercare

Hay. As I’ve taught you before, some of the big reasons BDSM is so enjoyable is a result of the alteration of chemical and hormonal levels in the human body. They are altered before, during and after a scene and include ones like adrenaline, oxytocin and endorphins....