by BlakSyn | Sep 21, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Communication, Fundamentals, Mental Health, Negotiation, Power Dynamics, Risk, Safety, Uncategorized
Excitement is an emotion best described as a feeling of great enthusiasm or eagerness. Its something we’ve all felt. I believe this to be especially true with things, individuals and concepts people resonate with, but have little to no knowledge about....
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, BIPOC and BDSM, Power Dynamics
Navigating alternative cultures like BDSM/kink in a society that still has a number of puritanical views is difficult enough. For many, opposition to what brings them joy only needs dealing with only a few or fewer points. People of Color, however, are usually...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Consent, Negotiation, Power Dynamics, Scenes
(THIS POST APPLIES TO MORE THAN JUST WEED) I personally enjoy drugs. Seriously. 😅 Many people do and some of those folks happen to be kinksters. Furthermore, some kinksters will use drugs in congress with their love of BDSM for numerous reasons. I get it. Maybe you...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, BDSM Community, Consent, Power Dynamics, Safety
The power someone gains from heightened notoriety as a result of others possessing widespread reverence for them can be described as clout. While clout itself isn’t necessarily a bad thing, our attitudes towards clout can be dangerous. We don’t always hold notable...
