by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Personal Musings, Radical Vulnerability
I would first come to understand the concept of suffering as a child. Back then, to suffer was often the result of actions taken by the adults throughout my young existence. My mother was one of those adults. Sometimes, I would gather enough courage to tell her of my...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. This is a discussion around the literal definition of trauma as pertains to me. Bear with me. Dominance, for me, is a kind of sincere performance. It isn’t entirely who I am as an existence, nor do I identify as dominant, but my ability to call upon it does...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Non Monogamy, Personal Musings, Relationships
It’s been really nice to see non-monogamy gain traction these last few years. I’ve enjoyed seeing depicted across many mediums in different capacities. I wish all those experiences were positive, inclusionary and didn’t focus on sex, but those are discussions for...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. Herpes and the stigma associated with it is not one easily circumvented. This stigma, continuously exacerbated by media, ignorance and misinformation, does more harm than good. It’s a stigma teaching the uninitiated that people with herpes are dirty, reckless and...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Personal Musings, Relationships
Hay. Sometimes I share my thoughts on a subject instead of teaching you a thing. Today’s subject is seduction. Dear follower trying to seduce their boyfriend into bdsm by doing sexy stuff, To seduce, in its simplest definition, is to attract powerfully. Our...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Mental Health, Personal Musings
Hay. Holding the trauma I’ve endured under scrutiny has been integral to personal growth and continuous improvement. Whether in BDSM or real life, the examination of my traumas offers insight that explains why I’m prone to certain behaviors and actions. That is, the...
