by BlakSyn | Sep 21, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Communication, Fundamentals, Mental Health, Negotiation, Power Dynamics, Risk, Safety, Uncategorized
Excitement is an emotion best described as a feeling of great enthusiasm or eagerness. Its something we’ve all felt. I believe this to be especially true with things, individuals and concepts people resonate with, but have little to no knowledge about....
by BlakSyn | Aug 2, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM Community, BDSM101, Fundamentals, Kink, Negotiation, Safety, Scenes, Uncategorized
Considering attending a BDSM play party? Awesome! I’m proud of your adventurous self! That excitement you feel commingled with nervousness is natural! Whether it’s a private residence, local public dungeon or large convention, there are are important things to...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Consent, Negotiation, Power Dynamics, Scenes
(THIS POST APPLIES TO MORE THAN JUST WEED) I personally enjoy drugs. Seriously. 😅 Many people do and some of those folks happen to be kinksters. Furthermore, some kinksters will use drugs in congress with their love of BDSM for numerous reasons. I get it. Maybe you...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, BDSM101, Fundamentals, Negotiation, Relationships, Scenes
While many of us aren’t the biggest fans of group projects, BDSM is a place where working together isn’t only encouraged, but imperative to its very framework. Cooperative Creation is both a concept and process that observes and values the nuance of the human...
