Intersecting Dominance and Trauma

Intersecting Dominance and Trauma

Hay.  Holding the trauma I’ve endured under scrutiny has been integral to personal growth and continuous improvement. Whether in BDSM or real life, the examination of my traumas offers insight that explains why I’m prone to certain behaviors and actions. That is, the...
BDSM, Risk, Mental Health and Self Awareness

BDSM, Risk, Mental Health and Self Awareness

My most favorite and cherished aspect of  BDSM is the depth to which I was able to dive below its surface. As I’ve ventured forth and deeper, I’ve gained invaluable tools imperative to better understanding BDSM in today’s world. From physical skills like rope to...
BDSM and Safety

BDSM and Safety

Safety, of course, is an important part of BDSM. There are no acts within BDSM that are without risk. Although risk is a clear and present aspect of kink itself, we can mitigate it by being present in our consideration of safety. When we think of safety, preventive...