by Brandon | Apr 18, 2022 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Communication, Fundamentals, Mental Health, Relationships, Risk, Safety, Scenes
As a willing, enthusiastic and consenting visitor to BDSM events and a participant in the countless ways to practice kink, your brain, bodily chemicals and hormones will be altered to some degree. Some, but not all of those chemicals/hormones include: endorphins,...
by BlakSyn | Feb 9, 2022 | BDSM, Communication, Non Monogamy, Relationships
Non-monogamy, as it intersects with BDSM, is not an oft discussed topic. Discussing it, however, could mean the difference between causing others you play with emotional or even traumatic suffering. No matter what consenting individuals decide to do together, it still...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Communication, Relationships
Hay. A healthy BDSM dynamic is the result of sincere, ethical cooperation between involved parties. Think of it as a sort of business. Businesses are similar to machines in that every internal part is necessary for operating desirably or at full capacity. More so, the...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, Non Monogamy, Personal Musings, Relationships
It’s been really nice to see non-monogamy gain traction these last few years. I’ve enjoyed seeing depicted across many mediums in different capacities. I wish all those experiences were positive, inclusionary and didn’t focus on sex, but those are discussions for...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | Personal Musings, Relationships
Hay. Sometimes I share my thoughts on a subject instead of teaching you a thing. Today’s subject is seduction. Dear follower trying to seduce their boyfriend into bdsm by doing sexy stuff, To seduce, in its simplest definition, is to attract powerfully. Our...
by BlakSyn | Oct 5, 2020 | BDSM, BDSM101, Fundamentals, Negotiation, Relationships, Scenes
While many of us aren’t the biggest fans of group projects, BDSM is a place where working together isn’t only encouraged, but imperative to its very framework. Cooperative Creation is both a concept and process that observes and values the nuance of the human...
