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RA (Relationship Anarchy)

RA (Relationship Anarchy)

It’s been really nice to see non-monogamy gain traction these last few years. I’ve enjoyed seeing depicted across many mediums in different capacities. I wish all those experiences were positive, inclusionary and didn’t focus on sex, but those are discussions for...

Non-Verbal Communication

Non-Verbal Communication

Dom/mes have a responsibility to develop their abilities ineffective communication and comprehension of verbal speech. They also must possess the foresight to establish a non-verbal protocol with their subs/bottoms/clients. This, of course, goes both ways as...

Herpes and Self-Worth

Herpes and Self-Worth

Hay. Herpes and the stigma associated with it is not one easily circumvented. This stigma, continuously exacerbated by media, ignorance and misinformation, does more harm than good. It’s a stigma teaching the uninitiated that people with herpes are dirty, reckless and...

Feelings On Seduction

Feelings On Seduction

Hay. Sometimes I share my thoughts on a subject instead of teaching you a thing. Today’s subject is seduction. Dear follower trying to seduce their boyfriend into bdsm by doing sexy stuff, To seduce, in its simplest definition, is to attract powerfully. Our...

Drugs and BDSM

Drugs and BDSM

(THIS POST APPLIES TO MORE THAN JUST WEED)  I personally enjoy drugs. Seriously. 😅 Many people do and some of those folks happen to be kinksters. Furthermore, some kinksters will use drugs in congress with their love of BDSM for numerous reasons. I get it. Maybe you...

Intersecting Dominance and Trauma

Intersecting Dominance and Trauma

Hay.  Holding the trauma I’ve endured under scrutiny has been integral to personal growth and continuous improvement. Whether in BDSM or real life, the examination of my traumas offers insight that explains why I’m prone to certain behaviors and actions. That is, the...

Cooperative Creation

Cooperative Creation

While many of us aren’t the biggest fans of group projects, BDSM is a place where working together isn’t only encouraged, but imperative to its very framework. Cooperative Creation is both a concept and process that observes and values the nuance of the human...

Non-Verbal Communication

The Color System

Hay.  I’m sure that many if not most of you are familiar with the concept of a “safe word”. For those of you who aren’t, “safe words” are words and phrases traditionally used to immediately stop a scene. There are numerous ways to augment what its use entails. Some...

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