by BlakSyn | Feb 9, 2022 | BDSM, Communication, Non Monogamy, Relationships
Non-monogamy, as it intersects with BDSM, is not an oft discussed topic. Discussing it, however, could mean the difference between causing others you play with emotional or even traumatic suffering. No matter what consenting individuals decide to do together, it still...
by BlakSyn | Sep 21, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Communication, Fundamentals, Mental Health, Negotiation, Power Dynamics, Risk, Safety, Uncategorized
Excitement is an emotion best described as a feeling of great enthusiasm or eagerness. Its something we’ve all felt. I believe this to be especially true with things, individuals and concepts people resonate with, but have little to no knowledge about....
by BlakSyn | Aug 2, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM Community, BDSM101, Fundamentals, Kink, Negotiation, Safety, Scenes, Uncategorized
Considering attending a BDSM play party? Awesome! I’m proud of your adventurous self! That excitement you feel commingled with nervousness is natural! Whether it’s a private residence, local public dungeon or large convention, there are are important things to...
by BlakSyn | Jul 25, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, BDSM101, Mental Health
We often make ourselves and others less than the total sum of parts that comprise a human being. In this case, “parts” refers to every ingredient that makes up who we are as a person. This includes thoughts, feelings, emotions, behaviors, ideas, reasoning, mental...
by BlakSyn | Apr 8, 2021 | BDSM, BDSM and Mental Health, Risk, Social Media BDSM
My most favorite and cherished aspect of BDSM is the depth to which I was able to dive below its surface. As I’ve ventured forth and deeper, I’ve gained invaluable tools imperative to better understanding BDSM in today’s world. From physical skills like rope, to...
